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DIARIES OF A NEW YORKER 3

The ride home was a rough one for Koku Mensah.  With one hand on the steering wheel, and the other scratching his head, he thought about his life. The past years had been tough. At age twenty, he had left Ghana to study at the prestigious University of Lagos. He thoroughly enjoyed his years at the University. During the holidays, three of his friends usually traveled with him to Ghana. Oladipo and Tobi had been in love with the country ever since their desire to visit Ghana had taken them there the first time. The University of Ghana in Legon and the University of Cape Coast used to be major points of interest for them at the time. Those where the places where guys got ‘chicks’ easily. Tamuno was the ‘baddest’ guy among them; A terrible flirt, who knew how to get the babes and keep them. Koku laughed at the memory of those days.The things guys did just to get a lady into bed!
He’d had a couple of girlfriends through his years in the University. He didn’t have to lift a finger. The girls always came to him. Sometimes, he didn’t know whether his good looks were a blessing or curse. The only exception was the lady who had captured his heart. Witty, good-natured , energetic and strong, Lisa had been the love of his life. The lady he could die for and spend the rest of his life with. A car in front of him refused to move even after the traffic light had changed to green. He horned for the car to move. Realizing the car was stuck; he signaled and pulled away. He hated what the traffic in Lagos did to him on week days. As if work wasn’t stressful enough, he had to deal with the traffic on a regular basis. He prayed for alternate means of transportation in the state. Hopefully, Lagos State would have trains that would run effectively one day. That would make life easier. His thoughts returned to Lisa. Honey, I’ll call you back had been her last words to him. She had died in a ghastly car accident on her way to a friend’s traditional wedding in Eastern Nigeria. That had been a month to their wedding. The house was all set for her to move in. The wedding planning had been going smoothly. When he had tried ceaselessly to reach her hours later to know whether she had gotten to her destination without any luck, he’d begun to panic. His instincts told him something was wrong. Very wrong.
Five years had gone by so swiftly. He has thirty- four and unmarried. His friends had tried without luck to get him to date. Ladies made passes at him. His present secretary, Omotara wasn’t sparing him daily. She was single and available and she made it a point of duty to let him realize that every time. She didn’t say it with words. Her eyes, dressing and body language said it all every time. He’d been celibate for a while. There were times he was tempted madly. Nana pressured him every time he spoke with her on the phone or traveled to see her in Ghana. His siblings were worried too. That was what drove him to ask Aduke to go with him to Ghana. She had been a friend for as long as he could remember. They attended the same high school in Ghana. While abroad, they exchanged e-mails occasionally. He couldn’t think of anyone else apart from her but her voice had been sharp and frank when she’d called him to let him know that she wouldn’t be going ahead with his game plan. He felt like a complete fool for asking her. His life had been about work and more work. He was fast getting tired of going home to an empty house. Perhaps, it was time to go back to the dating scene again. 
Suddenly the desire to have a family overwhelmed him. Lisa popped up in his mind again. I’m sorry he said aloud. I have mourned you for five years. I think it’s time to move on. Contemplating whether to stop over for a drink with his friends at Mason’s Bar or go home, he turned right and headed for the bar.

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